business class

My day to day outfits for work have to be flexible enough that I can carry boxes and loads of shopping bags, be on my hands and knees pinning hems, or stand on a table to reach a high shelf-ful of hangers. Costuming is GLAMOROUS. It's not that you have to dress in sweatpants every day, but you don't want to ruin a lovely silk shirt snagging it on a work table. Which is why I am jealous of people who can work in offices and wear pretty little Peter Pan collar blouses and dramatic trousers and heels. This is my alter-ego-office-attire-professor outfit. Wearing a prim collared blouse and very tall shoes lets college kids know you aren't one of them, even if maybe you look like you could be...

blouse, pants, belt, wedges, earrings, bracelet

mismatched bridesmaids

I really like the trend in the past few years of having a variety of dress styles for bridesmaids. I am of the opinion that you love your friends for different reasons, and the more individuality they get to retain, the better. 

First look: dress, necklace, belt, peep toes
Second look: dress, earrings, belt, pumps
Third look: dress, peter pan collar, belt, sandals
Fourth look: dress, earrings, belt, wedges

If you try this approach, a few guidelines can be helpful:

• Pick a color range you like. If you are letting bridesmaids pick their own dresses (and forgoing actual bridesmaid dress companies), the probability that you are going to pick one color blue and everyone will find that color is low. Think more in terms of a paint color sample card. It usually has 4 to 5 similar shades of the same hue, and those colors tend to go well together. 
• Choose a fabric for all dresses. This approach can obviously work with a combination of fabrics, but one texture (in the case above, I chose chiffon), can make this mix-and-match idea a little more unified. 
• Stick to one accent color. Whether you go with a metallic or some bright pop of color, a single accent color can pull the variety of dress colors together. 
• Have a comparable amount of accessories on each bridesmaid. Maybe you love that your friend Suzy wears an armful of bangles all the time. Balance that out by making sure other friends are wearing a similar amount of bling (perhaps a statement necklace or earrings). A costume designer once told me that if you squint, and everything doesn't blur together, the item that isn't blurring will pull focus. 

This can be a tricky balance to strike, but it is a really nice, unique look if you have the time and patience (or just really trust your friends to take care of it). Another reward-- all of these dresses are under $100. Your bridesmaids will thank you for that.